If a man does not discipline himself, he cannot bring order into the home. -Confucius
You have only yourself to be blame if your house is in disarray. If you made this mess, then get some discipline and fix it.
The Virtue of Temperance
Control. Discipline. Restraint. Call it what you will. But if you don’t have it, then life will be much harder. Rather than automating your life for success, your habits will be weak and detrimental. Temper your desires of excess. There is joy in moderation.